Step by Step Guide to Staging an Intervention
An intervention is an important event, created by family and friends of a person struggling with addiction, to help the person realize they have a problem, they need help, and they have support. While reality television shows have popularized interventions in recent years, these depictions often offer a false sense of how an intervention should be conducted. While interventions should always provide encouragement and incentive for the person struggling with addiction to seek help, they come in more forms than the classic family meeting frequently displayed in popular media.
What Is an Intervention?
An intervention is a carefully planned process. It is important that the friends and family involved avoid spontaneity in what they say, when they gather, and where they gather. This helps all team members to stay on topic, and to avoid placing blame, making accusations, or saying other hurtful things, which may lead the person to refuse help.
The intervention should focus on the positive. Although it is important for a person struggling with addiction to understand that their condition affects the mental and emotional health of their loved ones, the point is not to blame them for causing harm. Instead, it is to point out that the addiction causes negative changes in behavior, and there is a solution: detox and a comprehensive rehabilitation program.
Family and friends staging an intervention can make a plan for one on their own, or they can consult with a professional interventionist. This professional will structure the planning process, guide the intervention team, and lead the overall event.
Steps Involved in Staging an Intervention
When considering an intervention to help a loved one struggling with drug or alcohol addiction, there are some important steps that can guide the process.
Step 1: Get help. This may involve contacting a professional interventionist, social worker, or doctor. It could also involve contacting other family and friends. Support for the process is important, and it is important not to do all the work alone.
Step 2: Form the intervention team. This is the core group of organizers, and it may or may not include a professional interventionist. Generally, only close family members, friends, and coworkers should be included on the intervention team. If a person is currently struggling with their own substance abuse issues, they should not be included on the team.
Step 3: Make a plan. This includes scheduling a specific day, time of day, location, and guest list. It also includes an outline of how the process will work and what everyone will say. This is the overall guide to the event.
Step 4: Gather information. Learn about the substance of abuse, addiction, and the recovery process. Gather information about detox and rehabilitation programs, particularly those that suit the personality and needs of the person struggling with addiction.
Step 5: Write impact statements. Everyone at the intervention should have something to say about the person’s struggles with addiction. These should be personal statements, detailing how the addiction has harmed the person they love. Relationships can be deeply hurt by substance abuse. Written statements about the impact on relationships can help the person struggling with addiction to understand that their struggle does not impact them alone. These statements should be emotionally honest and focus on love. There is no place for personal attacks in these statements.
Step 6: Offer help. People attending the intervention should be willing to support their loved one in some capacity while the person goes through detox, rehabilitation, and long-term recovery. For example, offer rides to treatment once a week, or offer to attend family therapy sessions or support group meetings with the person.
Step 7: Set boundaries. If the person refuses treatment, relationships with friends and family must change. Everyone present should commit to ending codependency and enabling behaviors. Be clear that there will be consequences if the person refuses help.
Step 8: Rehearse. Emotions run high regarding substance abuse and addiction. To avoid taking too much time, blaming the loved one, or falling into self-pity, rehearse the whole intervention with everyone at least once before it actually occurs. Then, each team member will have an idea of what to say, when they will speak, and when to cede the floor.
Step 9: Manage expectations. While television nearly always shows the person at the center of the intervention accepting help, this is not always the case in real life. Even with a well-planned intervention and clear offers of help, the individual may not accept help for a variety of reasons. If they do not, then follow through on the outlined consequences.
Step 10: Follow up. Whether the person accepts help or not, it is important to uphold statements made during the intervention. Otherwise, the person may experience excessive stress, which could slow down their rehabilitation process, lead to relapse, or deepen substance abuse problems.
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Things to Avoid at an Intervention
Even with preparation, there are important points to avoid during an intervention. These include:
- Labels like “alcoholic,” “addict,” “junkie,” etc.: These can be taken as accusatory. Instead, opt for neutral terms and avoid defining the person by their addiction.
- Too many people: Pick a core group of close friends and family, and stick to a small number of people.
- Being upset during the intervention: Find ways to manage personal feelings so the event doesn’t become overrun by strong emotions.
- An intoxicated subject: If the subject of the intervention is intoxicated when the event is supposed to occur, it is not likely to be effective. Be prepared to wait for the person to sober up.
To fully understand what an intervention should accomplish, it can be important to know what an intervention should not entail. According to the Association of Professional Intervention Specialists, an intervention is not:
- Based in shame
- An ambush
The only way for interventions to be successful is if they are based in love, honesty, and support.
Discussions about emotional hurt, anger, fear, or concern should only come up if they reflect the love of family and friends.
An intervention is not a place to embarrass, shame, or scold the person struggling with addiction; these tactics are more likely to make the person retreat further into substance abuse patterns.
Different Types of Interventions
There are many different types of interventions to choose from. Many professional interventionists have a preferred intervention style they use.
- Crisis Intervention: Typically applied to models of policing, a crisis intervention generally involves police officers offering social and medical resources to people who may be abusing substances, suffering a mental health disorder, or both. By coordinating clinical support and police efforts, people who struggle with substance abuse and co-occurring issues, including mental illness or chronic homelessness, are more likely to get help for these specific issues and less likely to be treated like criminals.
- Brief Intervention: This form of intervention involves a short, one-on-one meeting between a person struggling with substance abuse and a medical professional or counselor. Brief interventions typically occur in hospitals, especially after a person has been admitted for an overdose; in schools, if a student is suspected of abusing substances; in a doctor’s office, after an exam reveals harmful health issues; or in other community-based programs. However, people concerned for a loved one can ask for a professional interventionist, a social worker, a therapist or counselor, or a doctor to perform a brief intervention.
- The Johnson Model: The Johnson Model is currently the most common form of intervention for people struggling with substance abuse in the US. It is designed to catalyze the person suffering addiction to enter a rehabilitation program. One or more caregivers plan a specific intervention, similar to the type outlined above. By showing the individual that they are surrounded by people who care for them and want them to get better, the individual knows they have support going into treatment.
- ARISE: This is a newer system of intervention that involves the whole family and is less confrontational, but it still uses many of the techniques of the Johnson Model. The ultimate goal of an ARISE intervention is to enroll the person struggling with addiction into a treatment program.
- SMART: This form of intervention may involve a Johnson Model-type of meeting, or it could be a form of community intervention; the point is to set clear, measurable, and achievable goals for the intervention. SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, and Time-specific. This system can be applied as part of the follow-up in a family-created intervention, or it could be part of the program evaluation for community interventions like drug and alcohol education programs, policing, etc.
- Family Systemic Intervention: This style not only focuses on the person struggling with addiction, but also on their family. All relationships are affected by substance abuse, and spouses, parents, children, and other close family members and friends can be dramatically impacted by these patterns of abuse. A Family Systemic Intervention catalyzes the whole family to seek help in the form of individual and family therapy, specific support groups, and other forms of treatment.
Recovery Requires Social Support
Regardless of what style of intervention is used, the point of the process is to help someone struggling with alcohol or drug addiction realize that they have support to overcome this condition and real help is available. Support comes in many forms, including medical care, therapeutic help, and social support from loved ones.
Can a Professional Interventionist Be Helpful?
If friends and family feel too emotionally charged while working on a DIY intervention, they can consult a professional interventionist, social worker, therapist, or other counselor at any time for help. They may ask the person to lead the intervention or simply seek guidance in planning the event. Professional assistance at any level can be extremely helpful, as an outside perspective can guide the process toward the most beneficial conclusion and keep everyone focused.
In some instances, hiring a professional is essential. Professional interventionists are highly recommended if the person who is the subject of the intervention has displayed any of the following:
- Serious mental illness, such as schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, etc
- A history of violence, such as domestic abuse or verbal abuse
- A history of suicidal talk or attempts, or other self-harming behaviors
- Polysubstance abuse
How to Find a Professional Interventionist
There are several ways to find a professional interventionist.
- Ask trusted friends or family for recommendations.
- Get a referral from a doctor or therapist.
- Find a social worker, often through a nearby hospital, rehabilitation center, or therapy office.
- Search local options online.
- Contact health insurance providers to see if there are options covered by insurance.
- Contact a community, religious, or spiritual leader for recommendations.
- Search for options via the Association of Intervention Specialists.
Tips for a Successful Intervention
Interventions are most successful when they are planned and implemented well. If the meeting is structured, especially with help from a professional, interventions can be up to 90 percent successful in convincing the person to get the help they need. For a successful intervention, keep the following in mind:
- The intervention is about the person who needs help overcoming substance abuse; it is not about anyone else. It is not a plan to vent about past wrongs.
- Interventions are for education and showing love; they are not about lashing out, shaming, or abusing the person struggling with addiction.
- Professional help can guide the intervention process in all instances. They are particularly helpful if loved ones are too emotionally involved to create a solid plan or if the subject has a history of violence or mental health issues.
Those struggling with substance abuse may be in denial about the harm they are causing themselves or others, but an intervention can help them understand that their behaviors are hurting those they love, not just their own physical and mental health. If the subject of the intervention knows they have support as they enter medical detox and a comprehensive rehabilitation program, they are more likely to agree to treatment.